Readers Write: Losing my best friend suddenly, senselessly

The Island Now

If you either live in Harbor Hills or ever visited, then you have seen me walking My Best Friend DJ. 

For the past eight years DJ has been my constant loving, loyal and trusted companion. 

We would walk every morning, during lunchtime, before dinner, after dinner and before bedtime. 

DJ gave unconditional love and was the most affectionate buddy anyone could ever have.  

He would sleep with us, lay down on the couch when we watched TV, eat dinner with us and got excited whenever our kids came home for a visit.  

DJ would sit on the chair in the dining room looking out the window waiting for us to come home. 

DJ would always jump on the couch, chair or bed and look at us with such love in his eyes. 

As soon as we came into the house he would run around in circles then jump on us wanting to be petted and kissed. 

If you saw us walking he would bark until you came over and petted him. 

When friends came over DJ would go over to them wanting to be petted. 

No matter how much love you gave DJ he returned it tenfold. 

DJ touched and enriched our lives in every possible way. 

This, however, ended last Saturday. 

I was leaving to go to Shul in the afternoon when DJ ran out the door before I could stop him. 

He was down the street before anyone could catch him and was hit about 100 feet from the entrance to Harbor Hills. 

I don’t know the name of the driver who killed DJ, but it was obvious from where DJ was hit and how severe his injuries were that the driver wasn’t paying attention and probably speeding. 

I am not sure if he was on the phone or sidetracked. I looked at DJ on the ground saw the injuries, petted him, kept kissing him and prayed that he would hold on until we got to the hospital. 

His breaths were shallow and he had a vacant look in his eyes not recognizing me. 

We carefully put DJ in a box and wrapped a blanket around him. 

Neighbors drove us to the Animal Hospital in Westbury which was the closest one open. 

Other neighbors followed us in their car to keep us company. 

My wife lovingly held DJ in the car and felt him die on the way there. 

The vet said that DJ had severe internal and head injuries and was already dead when we got there. 

I have lived in Harbor Hills the last 32 years and driven up Shore Park Road tens of thousands of times and find it inexcusable that this occurred. 

Any driver would have seen DJ coming down the street and stopped. 

The driver did not even have the decency to come over to my wife and me. 

We are devastated having lost a loved member of our family, miss DJ tremendously and know that he can never be replaced. 

For the past few days I have cried nonstop and pray that DJ didn’t suffer and that his soul is in heaven and that G-D is watching over him.

 

Jack Lipsky

Great Neck

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