8 Ways to support an Alzheimer’s caregiver

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November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month and Family Caregivers Month. To mark these events, the Alzheimer’s Association, Long Island Chapter is hosting a free Alzheimer’s and Dementia Conference and encouraging people to support the more than 586,000 family members and friends serving as Alzheimer’s caregivers in New York State.

Kate Anastasia, MPA, director of programs at the Alzheimer’s Association, says: “Caregivers are under enormous pressure and the pandemic has made their jobs even harder. Our conference is designed to offer real tools and information caregivers can use to manage their responsibilities.” She continues, “We also encourage all of you to support the caregivers in your lives. You have no idea how much a small act of kindness can mean to someone who is struggling.”

The Alzheimer’s and Dementia Conference is on Friday, Nov. 12, from 8:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. at the Huntington Hilton. This free, in-person event will focus on building caregiver skills, boosting confidence and reducing caregiver stress. You can learn more and register online or by calling 800.272.3900.

Our 8 tips are easy ways to provide help and support to caregivers.

• Learn: Educate yourself about Alzheimer’s disease – its symptoms, its progression and the common challenges facing caregivers. The more you know, the easier it will be to find ways to help.

• Build a Team: Organize family and friends who want to help with caregiving. The Alzheimer’s Association offers links to several free, online care calendar resources that families can use to build their care team, share takes and coordinate helpers.

• Give Caregivers a Break: Make a standing appointment to give the caregiver a break. Spend time with the person living with dementia and allow the caregiver a chance to run errands, go to their own doctor’s appointment, participate in a support group or engage in an activity that helps them recharge. Even one hour could make a big difference in providing the caregiver some relief.

• Check In: Many Alzheimer’s and dementia caregivers report feeling isolated or alone. So start the conversation – a phone call to check in, sending a note, or stopping by for a visit can make a big difference in a caregiver’s day and help them feel supported.

• Tackle the To-Do List: Ask for a list of errands that need to be run – such as picking up groceries or prescriptions. Offer to do yard work or other household chores. It can be hard for a caregiver to find time to complete these simple tasks that we often take for granted.

• Be Specific and Be Flexible: Open-ended offers of support (“call me if you need anything” or “let me know if I can help”) may be well-intended, but are often dismissed. Be specific in your offer (“I’m going to the store, what do you need?”). Continue to let the caregiver know that you are there and ready to help.

• Help for the Holidays: Holiday celebrations are often joyous occasions, but they can be challenging and stressful for families facing Alzheimer’s. Help caregivers around the holidays by offering to help with cooking, cleaning or gift shopping. If a caregiver has traditionally hosted family celebrations, offer your home instead.

• Join the Fight: Honor a person living with the disease and their caregiver by joining the fight against Alzheimer’s. You can volunteer with your local Alzheimer’s Association chapter, participate in fundraising events such as Walk to End Alzheimer’s and The Longest Day, advocate for more research funding, or sign up to participate in a clinical study through the Alzheimer’s Association’s Trial Match.

To learn more about Alzheimer’s disease and ways you can support families and people living with the disease, visit alz.org/longisland.

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